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According to traditional stories of the life of
the Buddha, he first decided to leave his home and seek enlightenment
after encountering the "four sights"-(I) a sick person, (2) an old person,
(3) a corpse, and (4) a world renouncer. The first three epitomize the
sufferings to which ordinary beings are subjects and the last indicates
that one can transcend them through meditation and religious practice. The
greatest problem of all is death, the final cessation of all our hopes and
dreams, our successes and failures, our loves, hates, worries, and plans.
From its inception, Buddhism has stressed the importance of death,
since awareness of death is what prompted the Buddha to perceive the
ultimate futility of worldly concerns and pleasures. Realizing that death
is inevitable for a person who is caught up in worldly pleasures and
attitudes, he resolved to renounce the world and devote himself to finding
a solution to this most basic of existential dilemmas. After years of
diligent and difficult practice he became enlightened, and through this he
transcended death. His life provides his followers with a model to
emulate, and even today Buddhist teachers strongly advise their
students to meditate on death and impermanence, since they are powerful
counteragents to short-sighted concern with the present life and one's own
transitory happiness. Buddhist teachers also point out that according to
tradition Buddha began his teaching career discussing death and
impermanence in his first sermon on the four noble truths, and he also
ended his career with teachings on death and impermanence, which indicates
how important they are in Buddhist teaching and practice.
Tibetan Buddhism places a particularly strong emphasis on instructions
concerning death, and Tibetan literature is full of admonitions to be
aware of the inevitability of death, the preciousness of the opportunities
that a human birth presents, and the great value of mindfulness of death.
A person who correctly grasps the inevitability, of death becomes more
focused on religious practice, since he or she realizes that death is
inevitable, the time of death is uncertain, and so every moment counts.
An example of this attitude can be found in the bioraphy of Milarepa,
who began his meditative practice after having killed a number of people
through black magic. The realization of his impending death and the
sufferings he would experience in his next lifetime prompted him to find a
lama who could show him a way to avert his fate. His concern with death
was so great that when he was medititing in a cave his tattered clothes
fell apart, but he decided not to mend them, saying, "If I were to die
this evening, it would be wiser to meditate than to do this useless
sewing."1
This attitude epitomizes the ideal for a Buddhist practitioner,
according to many teachers. Atisha is said to have told his students that
for a person who is unaware of death, meditation has little power, but a
person who is mindful of death and impermanence progresses steadily and
makes the most of every precious moment. A famous saying of the school he
founded, the Kadampa, holds that if one does not meditate on death in the
morning, the whole morning is wasted, if one does not meditate on death at
noon, the afternoon is wasted, and if one does not meditate on death at
night, the evening is wasted.
In stark contrast to this attitude, most people frantically run after
transitory pleasures and material objects, foolishly believing that
wealth, power, friends, and family will bring lasting happiness. This
is particularly prevalent in western cultures, which emphasize
superficial images of happiness, material and sensual pleasures, and
technological innovation as avenues to fulfillment. We are taught to crave
such things, but inevitably find that the wealthy and powerful die just as
surely as the poor and powerless. We try to cover up the signs of
aging through cosmetics and surgery, and we attempt to hide the
reality of death by putting makeup on corpses to make them appear
"lifelike." We are even taught to avoid discussion of death, since this
is seen as being inappropriate in polite company and overly morbid.
Instead, people tend to focus on things that turn their attention from
death and surround themselves with images of superficial happiness.
As Dr. Richard Kalish states,
death is blasphemous and pornographic. We react to it and its symbols
in the same way that we react to pornography. We avoid it. We deny it
exists. We avert our eyes from its presence. We protect little children
from observing it and dodge their questions about it. We speak of it only
in whispers. We consider it horrible, ugly and grotesque.2
From its inception, Buddhism has taken a far different course. Anyone
who has studied with Tibetan lama has been regularly reminded of
the importance of mindfulness of death. Teachings on death and
impermanence are found in every facet of Tibetan Buddhist teaching, and
any student who tries to overlook them is soon reminded that dharma
practice requires a poignant awareness of death. Buddhist teachings
emphasize the idea that although one's destiny is always influenced by
past karma, every person has the ability to exercise free will and
influence the course of both life and death. We all shape our own
destinies, and in every moment there are opportunities for spiritual
advancement. According to many Buddhist texts, death presents us with a
range of important possibilities for progress.
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Buddhist meditation texts point out that we have
ample evidence of death all around us, since everything is changing from
moment to moment. A person wishing to ponder death need not go to a
cemetery or a funeral home: death is occurring everywhere and at all
times. Even the cells of our bodies are constantly being born and dying.
All of us are inexorably moving toward physical death in every moment.
Since every created thing is impermanent, everything we see, hear, touch,
taste, love, despise, or desire is in the process of dying. There is
nothing to hold onto, nothing that remains unchanged from moment to
moment, and so anyone who tries to find happiness among transient created
things is doomed to disappointment.
This transiency is the reason why we are prone to unhappiness and
suffering, since everything we desire eventually breaks down, and we often
have to put up with things that we find unpleasant. Impermanence is also
essential for liberation, since the constant changing nature of cyclic
existence makes progress possible. Every moment presents opportunity to
train the mind in the direction of enlightenment, and since there is no
fixed element to personality, every person
is constantly engaged in the process of becoming something else.
We do, of course, tend to fall into patterns of behavior, and it is all
too easy to become caught up in negative patterns, but since every moment
is a rebirth, there is always an opportunity to initiate change. A wise
person, according to Chagdud Tulku Rinpoche, understands the imminence of
death and plans ahead.
Warned of a hurricane, we don't wait until the storm pounds the
shore before we start to prepare. Similarly, knowing death is looming
offshore, we shouldn't wait until it overpowers us before developing the
meditation skills necessary to achieve the great potential of the mind at
the moment of death.3
Each moment is said to give us a glimpse of the bardo (bar do,
antarabhava), the intermediate state between death and rebirth,
since every moment of mind passes away and is replaced by a successive
moment. Reflection on one's own mental processes graphically indicates the
fleeting nature of consciousness: thoughts flow along in unending
succession, each one giving way to its successor. Thoughts and emotions
change in response to our experiences and perceptions, and even our most
cherished ideas and aspirations are subject to change. Thus, for a person
who has awareness of death, every moment becomes a lesson in death and
impermanence.
Our dreams also provide an opportunity for mindfulness of death. In
Tibetan Buddhist death literature it is said that at the moment of
falling asleep one experiences a moment of clear light like the one
that arises at the time of death. Moreover, the dream state is like
the bardo, since in dreams one often conceives of oneself in a body and
undergoes vivid experiences that are creations of mind, just as beings in
the bardo do. Waking from a dream is similar to rebirth, since the
illusory dream body passes away and we awaken to a new "reality."
Because of these similarities, dream yoga is said to be an
important method for gaining control over the production of mental
images, a skill that is extremely useful in the bardo.4
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A person wishing to develop mindfulness of death
should first cultivate awareness of its inevitability. Everyone who has
ever lived has died, and there is no reason to suppose that anyone
presently alive will be able to escape death. Even the buddhas,
bodhisattvas, and Buddhist saints of the past have all died, and so
it should be clear to a person who thinks on this that the same
fate awaits us all.
This understanding should not result in passivity, resignation, or
morbidity; rather, it should spur us to greater diligence in religion
practice. Every moment should be viewed as being infinitely precious,
and we should make the utmost effort to use our time to the best
advantage.
After making this decision, the meditator considers the uncertainty of
the time of death and decides that it might occur at any moment, which
should lead to a resolve to begin practicing dharma immediately. Practice
should not be put off until the future, but should begin right now. A
person who thinks, "I'll wait until the children are grown," "After I
finish this semester I'll begin meditating," or "I just don't have enough
time right now" will probably never get around to meditation, and even if
he does, meditation will most likely be halfhearted. A person who wishes
to make real progress must feel a strong, sense of urgency, like a person
caught in a burning house looking, for a way out.
The next stage in this process is coming to understand that at the time
of death only spiritual accomplishments will be of any worth. Material
possessions, friends and relatives, worldly acclaim and power all vanish
at the time of death, leaving nothing behind. None of these can be carried
over into the next life. Moreover, one's future birth will be determined
by one's actions in this life, and so one should resolve to practice
meditation and other religious activities diligently.
It is also important not to think that in one's next lifetime one will
necessarily be born as a human. According to Buddhist teachings on
rebirth, a human life is very rare, and it is much more likely that one
will be born in some other life situation, and if this happens one's
chances for becoming aware of the problems of cyclic existence and seeking
a solution are greatly diminished. Humans are uniquely situated in cyclic
existence: we are intelligent enough to recognize the problems and
sufferings of cyclic existence (unlike lower types of beings such as
animals), and we are not so overwhelmed by either suffering or happiness
that we are blinded to the realities of cvclic existence. A person who
understands this situation should become keenly aware of death and resolve
to "extract the essence" of the present life.
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