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- What Is Humor?
Of all the wonders of nature, a tree in summer
is perhaps the most remarkable---with the possible exception of a moose
singing “Embraceable You” in spats. -- W. ALLEN
ASSOCIATE SUPREME COURT Justice Potter
Stewart is known to have said that he couldn’t describe pornography, but
he “knew it when he saw it.” He later much regretted this remark when he
was faced with a roomful of smut and hours of viewing naughty movies with
a task at hand of distinguishing the artful from the lewd. He
quickly discovered he couldn’t define porn, even in his own
mind.
One might try to say about humor that we know it when we
laugh at it. But what handle can we get on this humor thing that causes us
to chortle?
Meng, leaving nothing affirmed and nothing negated
says: “Humor is the ability to laugh despite, or in spite of, or both
despite and in spite of, one’s own Dukkha. Or maybe it’s not.” Douglas
simply left nothing affirmed: “Humor is whatever seriousness is not. Oops
-- that was too easy!” In that same vein, Meng’s email signature includes
the tagline: “Life is too important to be taken seriously.” Dinty seems to
agree in so many words, writing: “Humor is the truth of our
situation.”
Meng echoes that sentiment with these words: “I think
we as adults tend not to find humor in our experiences of the world
precisely because we place a veil on our eyes and are unable to directly
appreciate our experiences.” He recommends a story at his website for
Buddhists about a clown who is veiled. David replies to “What is humor?”
with Buddhist aplomb: “Who wants to know?”
Jeff slipped in some
a-peeling humor: “Humor is when you slip on a banana peel and fall down.
Tragedy is when I slip on a banana peel and fall down. Satori is when
Buddha slips on a banana peel and sees the morning star.”
Is Humor a Part of One's
Practice?
- May all the evil deeds and suffering of sentient
beings ripen in me, and may all my virtue and happiness ripen in
sentient beings. -- CHOGYAM
TRUNGPA, "Training the Mind"
I ASKED THE FIVE panelists how humor
impacts on their own spiritual practice:
David writes: “I think the
mellowness of attitude that derives from practice is conducive to seeing
the lighter side of life. But you have to remember ... I have become a
semi-professional humourist, so on a mundane level I am poised and primed
to see humour in life for those reasons. Also, much of the humour in [my]
cartoon strip [Dharma the Cat] is ‘invented’ by conscious, willful and
disciplined creative effort (i.e., object-driven, with the purpose of
creating a communication about some aspect of the dharma), so this has
less to do with practice than profession.”
“Being able to
acknowledge the many, many weaknesses in myself makes me far more able to
make fun of myself, which I do more than I make fun of other people.” says
Dinty. “I certainly hope I do, anyway. In The Accidental Buddhist, the
joke is on me most of the time. In life, this is true too. So, seeing what
a total bozo I am allows me to love and honor the total bozo in others. I
call this Bozo Zen.”
“I think that being a Buddhist is very
simple,” Meng says. “It's just about cultivating kindness, compassion,
mindfulness and calmness. Very simple, but not easy at all.”
“Humor
is not a central part of my practice/Buddhist ‘theology’” says Jeff. “I'd
say that sincerity, modesty, mindfulness, gratitude, and compassion are
the cornerstones of my approach, more or less in that order. But my
feeling is that any authentic Buddhist practice, at least for me, cannot
be divorced from any aspect of my life, and humor is certainly a prominent
part of my everyday life. My Buddhist practice, ideally, is entwined with
all areas of my life, and therefore naturally informs and is informed by
my sense of humor.”
“It occurs to me that maybe I am not serious
enough in my Buddhist spiritual practice.” says Douglas. “That thought
occurs to me often, especially when I fall out of my meditation practice
for days, sometimes even a week at a time. After all, the stakes in
spiritual practice are pretty big, aren’t they?
“Yet humor about it
all is a coping strategy, a release valve, for the true intensity -- the
real stakes -- that lie behind this thing called Buddhism and ‘spiritual
practice.’ Really, we are talking about where our heads and hearts and
spirits are in this world. And maybe the next. And the one after that. The
big enchilada of life. And whether we will continue to suffer the slings
and arrows of our outrageous (self-inflicted) fortunes for endless cycles
of existence. Or start to wake up. Geez, that's a big dance card! You
gotta' smile in the face of it, or else.”
PAGE 3: "Die,
you old fake!"
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