Generally when they are referred to in Buddhist literature it
is assumed they are devoted to the Truth (Dharma). But the broader meaning of
the word is a female (males are called Dakas) spirit who has some freedom but is
still bound by their past actions. Thus there are good Angels and bad (or simply
confused) Angels. Some people might argue that you couldn't call them an Angel
anymore if they're bad, but that's ridiculous since being predictable is not
part of anyones long-term nature.
Thus there are worldy Dakinis who are malicious and use
their powers to confuse us, to arouse passions that are destructive, and who use
their charms for their own selfish purposes. Dakinis can manifest on earth in
human form or take birth as a human. These are then called "worldly Dakinis" and
I'm sure you've met at least one or two in your lifetime. Women (or men) who
seem to be able to simply will things into being. People who are so charming
that they seduce whatever they want from the world and enjoy it fully, yet also
remain somewhat disattached from the results.
Dharma Dakinis are devoted to a higher purpose and so their
actions are generally positive. But it is hard to generalize the actions of
Dharma Dakinis since they aim to break our rabid fixation on concrete thoughts.
Dharma Dakinis are not afraid to use their powers to dazzle us, arouse us out of
our sleep of habits, and seduce us onto a path of truth. Dakinis are tricky,
capricious, and unpredictable. We're in trouble when the Dakini disrupts our
mind with magic, breaks our habitual thought patterns with the miraculous, or
simply opens our hearts with mad adoration. Messengers between our earthly realm
and the higher realms of the teachers, they help to bring the powerful teachings
to earth, protect the truth from destructive forces, and bring blessings to
sincere seekers. The natural result is to fall in love with a Dakini or Angel.
How can you avoid falling in love with someone who inspires wild love and higher
meaning suffused with delight?
Fixate on that pleasure and the Dakini does the most
compassionate thing possible. They fly away. Dakinis do not manifest simply for
our pleasure. (There are people who will do that but it usually requires
negotiation and some form of hard currency). Dakinis manifest the beauty of the
Truth which is then an invitation to follow the path of Truth. Sky Dancers help
us through vision and inspiration. But although we can be greatly inspired by a
Dakini (another word is Muse), they will only come back if we put into action
what they have shown us.
In that regard a Dakini's love is unswerving and always
compassionate. It doesn't matter if we wait a few hours or a few lifetimes to
put our inspiration into action. Miracles occur but sometimes it takes years to
fully realize the implications. When we do realize or remember, our hearts open,
and again the magic and majesty of the universe is open to us. The Dakinis
celebrate the Truth and our resolve to work for it in a most extraordinary way.
They dance in the sky.